Through love’s lens—A companion’s view on travelling with her disabled partner

A man in a wheelchair and a woman roller skating are dancing together outdoors. The scene is set in front of the iconic golden statue of Prometheus at Rockefeller Center in New York City. The man is wearing a vest and sunglasses, while the woman is dressed in a blue fringed jacket and black pants. They are surrounded by other people, including a videographer, skaters, and spectators enjoying the atmosphere. The mood is lively and inclusive.

Danniel, George’s fiancée, isn’t his caretaker in the traditional sense of the word. She’s not there to ‘help’ him in the way many might think. She’s his partner, a co-conspirator in the mission of making life work smoothly. They’re in it together, fully. It’s about collaboration and mutual respect—at work in their organization Access Initiatives, where George is the founder and Danniel the Chief Marketing Officer, and at home. Danniel describes George as funny, loyal, a superhuman who is also a pilot and he can crochet! Another endearing trait is that he checks on her family members and his, every morning.

When they travel overseas, she might handle the logistics, like booking flights or figuring out how to fit his wheelchair and luggage in the trunk of a rental car, but George brings his own superhuman strengths to the table. Together, they form a system that’s perfectly calibrated to make travel not just possible, but meaningful.

Planning is a significant part of every trip. Calls are made. Back-up plans are devised and then back-ups for the back-ups. And packing? Oh, they’re pros at it. Travel light, multifunctional clothing and a meticulous method of folding and organizing—these are their trade secrets.

You might think this sounds exhausting. And maybe, for anyone else, it would be. But for Danniel and George, this is just life. And there’s beauty in it. Obstacles encountered aren’t just hurdles to clear—they’re opportunities to refine their teamwork because it’s not really about the destination, it’s about how they get there together.

The funny thing is, despite the extra layers of planning and consideration that come with their travel, Danniel never feels like it’s a burden. “I don’t feel overwhelmed,” she says. Instead, she’s always activated, always alert, always prepared. There’s a routine to it now, a rhythm they’ve built over time. A back-up? George’s leg braces might be packed in her bag, their daughter might carry his crutches and they might have snacks tucked away for everyone. But it all feels normal to them. It’s their version of family travel.

A man in a wheelchair is smiling and waving at the camera while navigating through an airport terminal. He is wearing glasses and a grey shirt, with a large backpack on his lap. The wheelchair has an additional front wheel attachment, likely for easier mobility. The terminal around him shows gate signs (E5 and E6), and there are other travelers in the background. A sign for "Harvest Grounds" coffee and bakery is visible on the right. The atmosphere appears lively and friendly, with bright lighting and a clean, modern design.

And let’s talk about George for a second. Yes, he’s a wheelchair user. But as Danniel loves to say, George is strong. Strong enough to laugh at the world’s expectations, strong enough to build things with their son, to train fellow disabled members at the gym, to shoot off emails while Danniel carries the bags, to also carry bags on his legs during travel and strong enough to be independent. He’s not someone waiting to be helped. He’s an active partner, pulling his weight and making things happen.

Yet, it’s not all smooth sailing. There are moments when they’re reminded that the world isn’t always built with George in mind. Like the time at airport security when he was sitting in his wheelchair, forgotten. They had called ahead, but somehow, he still ended up waiting, stuck behind the T.S.A. line as the minutes ticked by. In that moment, Danniel’s protective instincts kicked in. She was not afraid to advocate, to speak up, but she did not make a scene. It was about quietly demanding the respect they deserve, about making sure that George is seen, heard and treated as any other traveller.

What’s striking about Danniel and George’s travel stories is not the challenges they face but the grace with which they handle them. They’re not bitter. They’re not angry at the world. They simply move forward, doing what they need to do to make the world work for them. And when things go wrong, they pivot. There’s always a backup plan. Always another way to solve the problem.

For them, travel is a kind of dance—a choreography of compromises, accommodations and, most of all, adaptability. They know that not every place is going to be accessible. And that’s okay. They’re not out to change the world with every trip they take. But they do leave a mark on it, in quiet ways. In every restaurant they visit, in every airport they pass through, they make people pause. They make people think. And sometimes, that’s enough.

The image shows a man in a wheelchair crossing the finish line of a race, accompanied by three other people: two children standing on either side of him and a woman behind him. The finish line banner above them displays the word "FINISH" and logos with the word "ALPHA" on either side. The people in the image appear to be smiling, and there are spectators and greenery in the background. It seems to be a positive moment at an outdoor event or race, with the participants celebrating their achievement together.
Danniel, George and their kids

And then there are the moments of pure joy—the times when all the planning pays off and they get to experience the simple thrill of being on vacation together. Those moments when they’re not thinking about logistics or accessibility, but just living. Just being.

For Danniel and George, travel reminds them of who they are as individuals and as a team. They’re not bound by George’s disability, nor are they defined by the challenges they face. Instead, they are bound by love, trust and a mutual understanding that life—whether on the road or at home—is a journey best travelled together.

So, does travel bring them closer? Absolutely! Because, for them, travel is a reminder that, no matter where they go, they’ll always find a way to make it work. Together.

A man and a woman are standing together in a warmly lit room. The man is using a crutch and wearing supportive leg braces. He is smiling, dressed in a fitted dark blue top, a black cap, and black shoes. The woman has her arm around the man, wearing a black long-sleeved top, a brown skirt, black tights, and ankle boots. Both appear to be posing happily in a casual, indoor setting.